Sunday, May 12, 2019


Guilt is a destructive false impression we carry.....
Do not live with GUILT....

Usually an emotion affects individuals differently; however origin of Guilt usually has similar cause and almost similar effects for all individuals.  Studies and research on the subject clearly indicate that we carry two types of Guilt, one that is result of our conscious wrong decisions and the second is the guilt we carry usually as a result of our very thoughtful, calculative measure called "Practical decisions". As a result of the type of decision taken, we end up either going wrong in our own life or hurting our near and dear ones. But sometime one carries a deep feeling of guilt, without doing anything consciously or unconsciously...

It does not matter what the origin of Guilt is, guilt is a destructive emotion that ruins relationships, results in depression and even destroys lives especially of the Individuals suffering from it.

It interesting to know that irrespective of the cause of its origin, it is always either result of Self Victimization ( in case of known wrong decisions) or it would result in self victimization ( In case of strong practical decisions).....The feeling of self denial when you are not even aware of any cause...

Let us understand type of guilt and its relation with Self Victimization. When Guilt is the result of a conscious wrong decision, we end up becoming a victim in the eyes of the people around and start justifying our wrong decisions explaining how much helpless we were and out of choice to take such decision and end up where we are today. These decisions are those that we take despite our inner self is continuously advising against either by way of different type of feelings, or some obvious signs such as negative vibes. Somehow somewhere deep inside we know we are going wrong but the temptation is so much that we suppress the inner voice, we ignore other's advice and behave as if never saw any sign and go ahead and take that tingling wrong decision.

In such cases Self victimization starts after Guilt and we initially do it just to justify ourselves in front of people not realizing the mind is such that once it masters any task it keeps producing the same thing over and over again, and of course the universe comes to its help to ensure we sympathize more, we feel guilt more which would result in more justification and more self pity and eventually we start believing we were a victim of circumstances and the vicious circle never stops.

You must realize guilt is a fake impression that we carry to justify the known wrong decision just to escape judgments which eventually becomes a strong belief and the Soul carries it till we learn the lesson of taking responsibility of our actions, till we learn to listen to our inner voice, till we have true faith.

There is another scenario when we carry guilt of having created painful circumstances for our near and dear ones because of a very practical decision taken at a point of time in a particular situation. We carry guilt because of our ignorance.  In this case guilt happens because of too much attachment, our sight limited to the physical world and unaware of the fact that every Soul has its own plan. Nothing happens without reason. The decision was taken with good intention for the betterment of all to the best of our capability however it did not turn out to be as we planned. Every other person has a different plan and has to go through certain situations for learning lessons. We fail to understand that the decision taken was as per our limited knowledge and in line with our own journey. We cannot live the life of others as we do not know what their journey is all about and why did they chose to be in a situation where something had to go wrong. Here again as you see, guilt is a false emotion, it happens due to lack of knowledge and too much attachment.

But in a case when one even does not know why he/she is feeling this ...the life of person is very difficult...

Get it released with age regression, past life regression...The sooner the better....

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