A wonderful Past life Journey session...

A beautiful Journey: Past Life Regression , everyone will love to read.

An interesting regression. Will try to write in short. A young, married women, age30 yrs, married, topper in studies...very beautiful... Looks seems combination of beautiful features...only single session done, three lives covered...instant regression..

.1^st life.

 Year  1140...i  am  a girl,  wearing dear  skin  cloths,  age  25  years, living in  Gangotri, an ashram, since childhood, as  I am an orphan, but most cared by others in ashram. This ashram is having Shiva statue. I have taken diksha. I am a Brahma Chari. We are going kashi for Kashi Vishwanath Darshan with our head of the ashram. I stayed there, then I went to Lumbvini, it is in Nepal. I stayed and did have siddhiya by tapsya. I am a bhikhshuni... I meditate whole day. I see now we all are going to bless a marriage ceremony in patliputra.it is a very big palace. We are blessing the boy, who is to be married. His name is dhritu. I am 35 year old now. When dhritu saw me, he refused to get married to the other girl. A lot of things are happening. We are coming back. His father is standing with us with folded hand. Some one from us is telling something. Regarding marriage, I am too upset to listen these things. We are leaving the patliputra.but I did not accepted dhritu proposal. But I know, I liked the thought of his love for me. I am varying sad. Meri tapsya bhang ho gayi, toot gayi... now I am in kashi sang math. I am 50 years old. I am head. I am sick. Mera dil me khrabi hay. Breathing problem hai. Dhritu is here to take care math and me. He is still unmarried. He devoted his life for me. 

(.actually dhritu is my life husband.).......then death...lesson learned...duty is important.

2^nd life......

.year.1803 I am a beautiful girl in Palestine area. They are calling me malika. I have four brothers, my father is very rich. I am very much pampered. I am very proud, in nature. An Indian man comes to teach me sitar. Now we love each other. Abbas, my elder brother now know this. I am too sad. Abbas killed my sitar teacher. Sitar teacher was in fact dhritu, of last life; he is my present life husband. I am. Going   to Paris for change but not happy. Time is passing. I am not ready to come back. Abbas is sad. He takes so much pains, comes to meet me. His wife also comes.   Now I understands my brothers love for me, so  I  am getting  married  to  some  one  my  family choose. A lot of story......................death. Lesson learned............be compassionate.

(Two  very  imp  present  life  people...Abbas, the  brother  and his son  and  Ayaa.The mousi  in  this  life. Integrated in this life.)

3^rd life

  i am a girl, 12 year, golden hair, my name is rose.  I am on ship with my nanny (caretaker). My mother is dead, so my father is sending me to my grand parents, I am leaving Lahore.my father do some work there. I am growing in beautiful women. I study and good in it. My grandfather is dead. I live with my grand mother and nanny.my house is beautiful. I am happy, I love someone, and he loves me. Actually (you know... he is the same dhritu& sitar teacher). I am going somewhere. It is big building, it is airport. My friend came to airport to see me off. I am upset. I complained about my father to govt. I think he is a spy. Some Budapest regency...Nazi...these thoughts are coming in mind. Oh, I want to tell my father, what I did. Oh ...my father is here. At airport. He is coming. Ahhhhh. He shot me.i am dead. He killed himself. My lover...he is so sad...lesson. Learned.....i should not have taken a hasty decision .one should make proper inquiry, before any conclusion .he was not a wrong man.   I am feeling uselessness now.....very long silence....

After PLR: Reorientation and integration....

                                Very much scared at airport. Chest problems without medical cause. Chest hurts a lot without any reason.

Some azeeb sa birth mark on chest. In this time.

Present husband......they met at airport. He came to pick her, official work. Not known.to each other.it was love at first site for both. In this life also uska rokaa ho chukka tha.he refused for that rishta. They got married with efforts of Mamaji of her husband. Mamaji was father of dhritu in year.1140.

She feels very much connected with Lahore, London and Paris.

Four other relations in present life were in other lives.

Conclusion....dhritu (1140), sitar teacher (1803), a friend and love (1932)...is same person.... all the time and husband in this life...

                                             Dr. Vandana Raghuvanshi, Chandigarh...09872880634

                          

On skype Past life regression session...

Session written and shared by person who regressed
 I spoke to dr.Vanadana and It finally  we could it happened ,we could manage to fix a time for the session .  as soon as i reached the state of Trance i saw the same woman who i had seen in my self regression . I was a tall woman  somewhere in Europe , it was mid day , I was very formally dressed as if i was in an office. I was looking for board or signs to know where i was but all signs and boards were in a different language. I started to see the Nazi signs and i knew i was in Germany , during the world war II ( maybe this life would explain my dislike for any movie that was made on World War II, even if it was a documentory i just could not watch ).

I had gone to that office to meet a man in a dark colour uniform , I was requesting him to let the women in my shelter home to go and bring their men’s body and burry them gracefully , it was their right but I knew this was no place i could lose my calm, i had to be polite and tactful, despite my pleadings he sent me away saying that they had more important issues to address and he did not know where bodies could be found. That list in my hand was the list of soldiers who had died in World War II.

I went back to the shelter home and was very upset , it was very painful to explain to them i had failed and i could not help them to even mourn over their loss in the right way.

Both my husband and me were Doctors, but after the war i was given the charge of the shelter home for women and children whose husbands had died in the war and who had lost their home, all men had been forcefully  taken to the battle field. I would occassionaly see or have very brief visits from my husband , he was alot busier , taking care of injured soldiers in the Nazi camps.

I moved back in time to the time i was married, we both were still in college when we got  married, maybe 21, we were classmates . We had an amazing bond and were friends too . He is my soulmate in current life, I moved forward to the time of child birth , we were blessed with a baby boy, beautiful boy . We had very happy times till the war began..

I was asked to see what happened to my son , i did not want to go back to that memory , but with some persitance i went to the event , he was 3 or 4 years old when we lost him , someone took him away and i did not know how that happened, i started crying , it was a very painful loss ( I have always been scared of having children, always felt i was too absent minded to be a good mother , this fear was to the extent that i would not hold any baby and would always avoid being with children and this life seems to have the answers to my phobia of having children).

My husband became very quiet after the loss of our son, i think deep inside he blamed me for being careless, our relation had turned cold. During this time the War started.

I next moved to another seen , it was when Germany was divided into 2 parts, since my husband was in the Nazi camps which were in west Germany ,we were separated by law of the land , they never let us be together, i saw the scene where there were high fences and we met for the last time , he had become cold like a stone , his warm eyes had no emotions , looking at him it felt as if i never knew him.

After that i resumed to my work , i was a doctor in a hospital who would work only day shifts, I enjoyed the shelter home and the social work more, after that moment life was just a routine, my husband and me wrote to each other regularly but that was the only source of hope in life... One day i died of a heart attack while waiting for the postman, i was maybe 54 .

I had to learn the lesson of “ACCEPTANCE “, i had not learnt that lesson, I had carried so much pain and agony from that life that i was unable to move up in the LBL session. It took a lot of cleansing ....( My head felt so heavy that i started to feel the headache, it felt as if there was a big white box in place of my brain , with the help of the healing techniques I was pushed and  further moved up , at this time i saw one of the soulmates, the most senior one who had helped me in my planning stage counseling , he whispered that “ you are late “, i also saw my soulmate , he did not say anything but was reassuring that he is there and i should not be scared.

I then saw my Master soul, I went to him and pay my respects in an Indian traditional way , he blessed me and told me “ You recieve everything in abundance, both good and bad , stay protected”. He continued to bless me and then he left , Dr.Vandana wanted me to do more work but i was too exhausted and wanted to come back.

When i was looking at that life from above , i had seen that my husband had accepted that life, i had even said i am upset and i am carring sadness, grief and a sense of loss, I was sad because i had not learnt to accept my circumstances and deep inside i knew i had wasted that life in wait and in sadness. When i run my current life parallel i am repeating the same pattern at certain times, acceptance does not come to me easily but I have learnt to fight it and i fight the circumstances to the extent of forgetting to live life , i dont wait and accept what i do not like i turn the table around and change my situation but it takes me alot of energy and effort , it does not come to me easily.

But this is one lesson that i need to learn , in life we can not have everything together and we need to surrender at times , its a matter of faith too , When one has complete faith and surrenders is when usually life takes a positive turn , I had not learned that as a result i was complaining and once you complain you can not be grateful but all these comes after accepting one’s situation and having faith . I believe this is one of the most valuable lessons that i had failed to learn and I am so happy and grateful that i have been reminded of it in a way that i would never be able to fo

Alcohol craving and Past life link...Testimonial...

Written and shared by person who regressed..
Today i am back for writing about my past life experiences and great result. I want to share something very amazing. Here we go to know my life before regression. I was a big time drunker since last 10 years. and my specialty was i can mix and drink. My fav. cocktail was Long island ice tea( mixed with 5 types of alcohol) and i was spose to drink atleast 4 glasses of this cocktail in 2hrs. Beer was  one of my fav in summers i can drink 4 big bottles at a time back to back and 6 points too back to back. The most teriffit thing was in my life if i pass through wine shop in market or while driving, my body starts craving for drinking at anytime, i was a day drunker and night drunker too. After i had my regression from Dr. Vandana raghuvanshi, My life totaly changed. Still i am trying not to believe the change, but we have to accept the really at the end. So what i did.

Now since 3 months i am feeling like to drink to alcohol is there in this world which can give birth to that craving again in my body. though i have very small small experience to share, as i before said that i was not ready to accept the changes. many times it happened that we friends made a plan to sit and drink, but due to some circumstances i never able to reach there. some times its a traffic and sometimes any stupid reason. Now i have a very interesting experience to share I went to Saturday night party  and it was decided that no matter what today i will drink thats what my mind said, so i went to very well known and good club and i ordered my fav cocktail you will not believe what ha pend after i had my first sip. It felt like i am a new drunker the drink is very strong. And i was not able to drink that, which was my all time fav cocktail. Still i thought i will drink it in anyways coz the drink was expensive too. So i started having one one small small sips. and it took 1hr 30 mins to complete the half glass and at the end i thought i can't  drink it anymore and i left the drink in between. It is the most unbelieable able turn which my life took Now  truly from my heart accepted the change which held in my life, and the total credit goes to Dr. Vandana Raghuvanshi.

She is great doctor and a great person too. She understands the feeling of he patients and treat them rightly. Apart from my this life which i shared with u and had regressed my 3 more life's too. and there are many  changes held in my life. My life is getting better day by day and that is all because of dr. Vandana Raghvanshi. Many problems of my life has been solved. and i really appreciate Dr. Raghuvanshi effort and the grace of God which is there on her.

I will come back again with new experience to share with you. Till then good bye believe in God and Good Karma.

Know Yourself...with a Past life regression session....

You Are What You Are! Know the You within U!! Love the real You....

If you want to know the real you, you need to take few past life regression sessions. Often we take decisions that are practical, logical but they still don't feel right, for that you need to know yourself, You need to know the you within You, it is through living from the across the time and space... that you will find WHO YOU REALLY ARE.
When we live true to our nature , life supports us and we create success effortlessly aligned and in balance with our purpose and path. We take decisions that not only feel right but give us the best results too, the biggest shift of all is the realization that LIFE IS NOT HAPPENING TO YOU but FOR YOU.
Everything you need , you can create and have from within your heart.the heart knows how to give you everything without causing pain or harm to anyone or anything in the universe.      
                 You need to know that you are exactly who you need to be at this moment, right here & now, accept that you are enough, more than enough, that you are already WHOLE, COMPLETE & PERFECT....believe that!                                                                                                                                                           Believe that there is only one person powerful enough to stop you & there is only one person enough to set you free, YOU! You are so much more than you think you are, there is such a larger you to emerge..... tap into it, say "YES" to it and let it out. This is possible if you understand your purpose of life and soul journey....                                                                
  Whatever you do you know, and absolutely trust without anyone else needing to affirm - that is good & creative and powerful and important about you. Know that the quality of your movement is a manifestation of the workings of your brain, which determines the quality and vitality of your life.                                                                                      
   You need to understand and realise that when genuine love and genuine self respect is present within you, you attract love and respect from others too....You then don't have to force people to love you, you don't have to keep proving yourself, you don't have worry that your true worth would not be recognised. You can then set yourself free and let go !
To Know Yourself Past Life Regression Helps...   

A 33 year old woman from U.K came to understand her relationships issue with husband Session…… I am a young soldier enjoying green grass, blue sky, blue waters. I love that I can feel the nature. My name is Xander. Some girl is in my mind. It’s a lovely feeling. I am walking towards river side and see a lot of people on river bank. And there she is, smiling, with beautiful eyes on me. I am very handsome tall with brown eyes. Now she is passing by me, we barely touched each other but feeling stays forever. Next I am riding a brown horse. I go to see the king. He is planning something on a table with a couple of people. I stand there and then he asked me to join him and sit down. There is some discussion and then I leave from the other side of his tent on a white horse. I am wearing a steel dress with leather belts. We are riding but I do not know where we are going. I am enjoying riding. I love myself. I think I love everything. I am free. I reach castle. This is where I live. I am a prince. I kiss my horse goodbye and go to take a lavish shower in my castle. I am very charming, kind and happy prince. Now I am in my room. It has a bed, a big window, a mirror, a big chair and closet on two sides of the room. And she enters. She sits on my bed. She talks and talks-----forever----and I love to listen-----just listen----none of us gets bored. She comes to give me food and she is my cook. Now I see myself as a middle aged man, occupied, feeling trapped. She is still here as a cook. She is not happy. I am getting ready to go somewhere. She places food on the table but does not look at me. I try to stop her but she does not stop. I sit on the chairfilled with guilt and sadness. Feeling trapped and helpless.I did not do right to her. Now I see myself in royal cart with a woman I do not find her attractive but she is beautiful. She is my wife but I do not love her. I am going with her to her house. There is a ceremony. She knows I do not love her. But she does. She has expectations but I am cold to her. When we reach her house I tell her that I do not love her and feel sorry. She stays numb. I was crying for mercy but she was numb and then she shows her hate towards me and curses me. She blamed me for what I did to her. We return back after ceremony. Now I hide myself inside a dark cave which is through a dark tunnel. I am filled with guilt after few days I came back. There was no joy. The guilt was so deep that I lost my respect for self. I asked my men to throw me in the pond in the castle and not to bury me. I died in guilt. The lesson I learnt that stand up for self, feel the love and believe in it. Respect comes from respecting yourself. As a therapist my observation…….. It was a highly emotionally charged sessio

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How to release fear? A few simple thought exercises can help to identify, target and overcome any type of fears more effectively. 1> Identify and name your fear. When one name the fear, can easily release it. Just try to identify it and name it. It will automatically lose its grip on our reality. 2> Pen them down and get rid of it. Listing and sharing it, is the way to get them out of our mind. If needed explore the fear more, share it & find answers to get rid of it. 3> Explore and find the way. Learn about the thing you fear. Develop an understanding and overcome the uncertainty of fears. 4> Associate with good and wise people. Discuss and find the way to get out of fear by associating with wise and more understanding people. 5> Train your mind. Take simple steps and work on it. Slowly it will built familiarity with frightening subject and makes them more manageable. 6> Mediate. It will help to uncover memories that can counteract the fear of future, fear that prevents us from making changes in our life today that can bring positive impact on the future.

Dog Phobia and Past life link....

Dog Phobia and Head Injuries

(A single Past Life Regression Session)

Subject: 17 year old boy, dog phobia since childhood, history of convulsions from birth to 3 year of age. MRI and EEG report normal still had anti-epileptic treatment for it till age of 3 year. Headache often on till now. Particular disliking for some ethnic group. Doesn’t like taking stress. Involuntarily stretching of Jaw since 2002(after some seeing odd behavior of father in a social event after having liquor)

Medical History:

Re-current throat and chest infection. Needs medical treatment. Crackling in both the knees.

Session:

Screening: Red spots on the knees released very easily. Dirty yellow patch in            the throat area. Divine light helped in releasing.

Regression:

Subject: I am a boy 10 years of age running in a street. Riots taking place. A         mob is running. I fell and hit my head and injured my chest. I am in Hospital.

Dr.VSR - Move ahead to some important event.

Subject: I am walking and a dog suddenly bites me. Feeling agony and pain.

Dr. VSR – Go backwards (Healing Done)

                Now move ahead to your adult life.

Subject: I am working too hard and I think I lost my parents. I work and                           study.

Dr. VSR – Go ahead 5 years into your life.

Subject: I am a doctor. I am in a hospital and I am very popular. Now I am married.

Dr. VSR – Go to the important event which relates with present life.

Subject: I am having fever and chest infection. I am coughing. I am dying due to this problem. I am sad. My wife and son are alone now.

Dr. VSR – Move ahead. What’s happening after your death?

Subject: I am a light going up. Now I am in a very big white light. Its’ very peaceful and pleasant here. I am allowed to stay here for a longer time.

Dr. VSR – Now time is to come back. And now go to the root cause of important present life issue which needs healing.

Silence…………………… (Pause) ………………

Subject: I am very small baby boy. I took birth in Australia. My father holding me in his arms accidentally I slip and I fell from the stairs onto the floor. My head hits the floor and I am dead.

Dr. VSR – Now see what is happening with you

Subject: I am going up into the same white light and rested there only for 8 days.

Dr. VSR – Why 8 days only?

Subject: I had to live my life.

Dr. VSR – Ok. Now where are you?

Subject: I am in my present father’s arms. I am a new born baby boy.

Re-Orientation:

1)    He felt something moving out from knees and throat.

2)   Subject smiled and looked at me. He seems to have enjoyed the session. Histories of convulsions in childhood (with normal MRI and EEG) maybe result of head injuries in both past lives. 

Advised:

1)    Watch for the reaction with dogs.

2)   Watch for the knee pain

3)   Watch for the throat and chest infection

4)   Come for consultation after 1 and a half month for review.

  Follow UP: (After 45 days)

1)    Dog phobia stopped within a week completely.

2)   No treatment required for chest and throat after regression session.

3)   Crackling sound of knees reduced by 80%.

4)   Have become very responsible

Areas of Problems when Past Life Regression can be especially useful • When an emotional reaction is totally out of proportion to the event that caused it • Negative feelings toward certain ethnic groups • Chronic physical symptoms, such as allergies, persistent headaches, that have not been helped by traditional medicine • Psychosomatic reactions • To release carry-over memories of past life traumatic experiences influencing the present life • Phobias, and addiction • To understand purpose of present life • Obsessions, compulsive habits • Sexual problems • Low self-esteem and feelings of unworthiness, intense guild • low energy, creative blocks, recurrent nightmares • For spiritual advancement • If you have a question…..why me? Why this happened to me? Why he/she is doing this to me? Why am I suffering like this? Why everyone takes advantage of me? Why I lost my love even when I was so sincere to him/her? Why I feel always lonely? Why is there a deep sadness inside me? Who is my soul mate?

A Life Between Lives Regression is like taking the steps to heavenly realms of peace and infinite ... The silence , masters presence, masters guidance, meeting with soul-mate...all wonderful experiences...makes LBL...Life between lives session very special..

WHAT IS PAST LIFE REGRESSION????

Through past-life regression, Dr. Brian Weiss says it's possible to heal—and grow—your mind, body and soul, as well as strengthen your present-day relationships. He says one of the most common signs of a past life is déjà vu—the sensation that you have met a person before or have visited someplace previously. Sometimes, this déjà vu feeling is a sign of a past life with a particular person or in a specific place. 

If you think...Why this happens to me ????...Read the answer...

I’m asked this question all the time: “Why am I attracted to people who are wrong for me?” And the answer is quite simple, actually:

Because your wounded self is doing the attracting.

Now, I know the term “wounded self” can sound a little intense, so let me explain. We all have 2 selves: the “little self” (or the wounded self, the ego) & the “Spiritual Self” (the higher self, adult self, or soul).

The wounded self is the part of you that feels incomplete. It questions your worth & value; it doesn’t feel whole, or it feels flawed in some way. My wounded self is the “little me” who wonders if I’m truly lovable.

On the other hand, we also have a Spiritual Self. This is your higher self, your soul. It’s the part of you that’s connected to love, truth, wisdom & peace within. Your Spiritual Self knows, without a doubt, how lovable & valuable you are. In many ways, it’s the opposite of the ego.

At any given time, we are operating from one of these two selves. Many of us, unfortunately, operate from the viewpoint of the ego most of the time. That is, we believe we’re insignificant & powerless in some way, & we’re trying to make up for this lack.

The ego looks for things on the outside to find validation & completion. It believes once it gets more (money, a better partner, a better job, a better house, more vacations, etc…) it will finally be happy.

But … it’s never happy. Not for long, anyway. Because the ego’s very nature is to feel incomplete. Therefore when you live through the perspective of your ego, you’re destined to feel like something’s missing. Life through this lens is not very fun.

The ego gets highly activated when it comes to romantic relationships, because relationships are where we hold the most wounding.

We’ve all felt disappointed or hurt by a relationship in the past; we carry the memory of this wound into adulthood (sometimes unconsciously). If a wound from childhood is still active within you, you’ll attract people who are going to highlight the same feeling. For example, if your wounding is centered around feeling rejected or unseen, it’s likely that you’ll feel a similar way in your relationships as an adult.

Your unconscious is programmed to attract people who activate your wounds. The reason for this is so you’ll grow.

This is a frustrating part of the growth process! But think of it this way: You’re replaying your wounds so you can finally heal them. We cannot heal anything we don’t feel or see; we can’t heal things that are unconscious! The uncomfortable feeling has to come to the surface for you to grow beyond it.

And how do you grow beyond it?

By identifying with your higher self.

Remember, your higher self is the part of you that knows the truth about you. It knows that you are worthy, amazing, capable & powerful. Through the lens of the higher self, you are whole. Yes, you’re an imperfect human with flaws; but the larger truth is: you’re a soul.

You’re beautiful.

You’re important.

You’re special.

You’re love.

This is what the higher self knows about you — & it wants you to know it, too.

By identifying with your higher self (the love within you), your compulsion to play out wounds with other people dissipates & in some cases, disappears.

When you wake up to the higher self’s truth, you suddenly realize that the “wrong” people were just teachers to nudge you into the “right” state-of-mind; a state-of-mind that does not question your value or worth. Unfortunately, nothing inspires us to grow more than a broken heart.

Your higher self wants you to identify with it; it wants you to own who you really are. Reclaim the love within you, and you’ll heal your relationships from the inside-out.

VERY INTERESTING PAST LIFE REGRESSION SESSION...

Feeling confused about life ----I have a feeling that my father, who died a year back, wants me to do something.

A 34 year old married woman came to me and said Dr. Vandana, I am confused about my life as I have a feeling that my father, who was a cancer patient and expired a year back, is around me and is in pain. It has been a year that I constantly feel uncomfortable because of this.  Doctor, I want your help to resolve this issue. In this life I cannot trust people.

Session     

I am walking on a kutcha dirt road that ends at the wooden gate of the house. I am a woman inside the home. This house is big. The stairs are going up. There is a room there. An old couple is sitting in the room. There is another room.  A couple is inside the room. They have two kids with them.

It is night time I am sleeping on a cot in the kitchen. My dress is Rajasthani.

It is day time. I am cooking food and serving them. The young couple is taking meals. Now it is afternoon I am working in field. Everyone is working in the field. We are happy. In night again I cook food and sleep in kitchen.

We packed everything and left for somewhere in a cart. I am feeling sad. I do not have parents. The old couple kept me with them since I was 16 years of age. They are talking about me.

It seems we came very far. The old couple is now talking to a young man. They got me married to him in a very short ceremony. They left me with my husband.

I am happy. Now I have a child. Our life is normal. My name is Veero. I call my son Sukha. Now my son is a young man. I feel things are not fine in our area. I am worried about my son. One day lot of riots take place in this area.  My son went out and I ran after him. They killed him with a sword in front of me. He is just 21 years of age. We both are very sad now. We are just living for living. I died at the age of 60. My body was cremated by my husband. My last thought was I have lost trust in life. But lesson I learnt was to be kind and forgive.

Guided towards the light master light came and asked her to help her father. With the guidance of light the gall bladder area was cleaned and healed. Now after that she felt presence of her father’s higher self and told her that now I am free and he said now he is going in light. She also received a message that when you find time donate grains and throw flowers in Ganges at Hardwar. Master light told you don’t need to panic in any situation in present life. Live peacefully.

Reorientation…

Dr Vandana, my father had gall bladder carcinoma. In light I felt I am inside energy body of my father and my energy hands are removing blockages from that area that was causing pain to him. Thank you so much for miraculous work and helping me release departed soul of my father to light. God Bless !!!!

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We are at war with the past because our anger is always towards something that has already happened & looking at it we react emotionally which means we are trying to change it, which is impossible. Any scene that has taken place a year ago, a month ago or even a second ago or across time in your past life  cannot be changed. We may be completely convinced & we may believe we can. That's because we hold this belief subconsciously. Somewhere & sometime in the past, we have picked up & absorbed the belief that the world & its circumstances should shape up exactly as we want. 

When our internal desire of a certain type of circumstances is not fulfilled, or in other words something against this belief happens, our instant reaction is one of the various forms of anger & we tend to try & change the incident that has happened in a far-off past or a past that has just gone by. We keep replaying a revised incident, with words & actions that we would have liked & that suit our convenience & we also keep nullifying the actual incident or remain in a un-acceptance mode towards it. This is like fighting a war with the incident. We tend to do this inside our minds, repeatedly, even realizing somewhere deep within, that it is impossible.